Each year we have at least one dinner and there is always a moment to state what you are the most grateful for over the last year. This year I have just the one dinner, but for me it will be extra special because it will be with my little sister and her kids.
This year I am (extra) grateful for family. As I have often stated before, you have family that is given and family that is chosen. I am grateful for the whole lot.
My given family has been having some intense years and this last one was no different. But even though the lows were low, the highs are by far the things I remember. To be able to see my mom and dad spend time with the grand kids here, to grow in my relationship with my little sister and to see how we have all grown in character and strength, it makes me almost burst with love. The lesson I have learned is that there is always room for more kindness and my capacity to give is very stretchy.
And my chosen family, my Soeks and brother from another mother and sister from another mister and all of those who are far away but close to my heart, I am so happy to have been able to be there (and sometimes only just that, physically be there) at your hospital bed or your graduation, or just because you needed a hug (or an apple through whatsapp).
I keep saying it, we have a blessed life, and I am grateful for the lessons I have learned, especially through the tough times. And doubly so for all the wonderful good times we have had this year,
And for the coming year, I hope to finally have that valention and more perfect moments to collect with all of you.
Bida ta un ratu so, stima mas ku bo por, biba bon i hasi bon di bo kurason!
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